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I wanna know what people assume about me because of my tumblr.

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Put an assumption in my ask. I’ll confirm or dispute it. I’m not gonna be mean or anything, I’m just very interested. You can go anon if you want.

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Anonymous said: if you have depression you should learn to live with it instead of posting pictures like you do and putting other people down.

I understand where you are coming from, but if you do not appreciate the pictures i post, i hope that you are not following me.

But lets talk about the reason for posting these pictures. It is an outlet for people like me, sort of like a cry for help. If you feel the way i do you want people to know, you need people to know that you are not feeling so good. I suppose it’s like a diary really, you are just letting your feelings out in a harmless way. But also, these sorts of pictures need to be posted in order for people to understand that a lot of people feel the same way. It’s important that people don’t feel alone.

And now, I want to say, no one should ever have to live with depression. It is not a way to live, it is a disorder that can be sorted out in time. If you had a broken leg, you couldn’t just go about the world as normal, there would be certain complications that stopped you from doing that. Now, that is what depression is like. You cannot just forget about it for the day, it has a huge impact on all the things you do. It effects your whole life, that is why it has to be sorted out, just like a broken leg would. 

Thank you for your question anyway.

a-day-to-pierce-the-fall said: You are beautiful, never forget that..you will be okay and if you need anybody to talk to,I'm here for you.. You are going to make it and you are not alone xx. I love you

Thank you so much, I really needed that, these past few months have been hell and i’m really trying to get myself together now, so that means so much to me! I’m always, always here for you too!xxx

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Anonymous said: I'm so so alone I want to cut again I haven't in a while but I just feel so alone I don't have anyone anymore

I know exactly what you mean, in the past few days i’ve lost my family, i’ve lost my friends, and i’ve had no one, on Wednesday night I tried to kill myself because of it all and i remember lying there actually thinking i was going to die, and realising how much i want to live, despite everything that had gone on, What you have to remember is that there is always a chance to change and make things right, always! And It’s okay to feel alone, i’m always, always here! I hope you have chance to message me back xxx

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Anonymous said: I want to die

Why? Something pretty bad must be going on, and I’m here for you, you are just having a hard time. Sometimes, things are going to go really wrong. You’ll suffer in ways you’ve never heard of and you’re going to want to die. You won’t be able to see the point in anything, and you’ll think to yourself ‘what am i fighting for?’. Everything will come crashing down and you’ll feel like theres nothing you can do. But then you have to remind yourself that theres always a chance to change and make things right. And in time, things will be okay. You’ll need assurance that someone still has hope in you. You’ll need encouragement, someone to help you up when you keep falling down. And when you feel like you have no one, you must remember that someone loves you. When you distance yourself from everyone because you think that they are better off without you, somebody is missing you. They need you very much, and I know they would hate to see you give up. You have endured and survived - you are strong, I am always here sweetheart xxxxxxx 

Anonymous said: Why can't I stop cutting. I'll stop for a few days up to two weeks and then I just can't help it and I cut again.

Well first of all, you’ll need to find the reasons why you are cutting! You can’t just stop cutting without solving the problems which are making you want to cut, because even if you were able to stop cutting, the problems would still be there, As soon as those problems are sorted out, you will feel a million times better, and cutting will hardly cross your mind! I’m here for you if you need someone to talk to xxxx

Anonymous said: I really don't know why, but. I feel like I need a big sister figure? Or someone to talk to, to. To be able to actually give advice and be there for the weird things, the tough things. Whatever. I dunno! I don't know how old you are but I'm wondering if someone younger needed your help then would you be there?

i haven’t been on Tumblr in ages so i don’t know when you’ll see this or even if you will, but yeah! I never have anyone to talk to and it really does help, talking to someone. I’m always here for anyone, no matter what, the only reason i haven’t been on this is because a lot has gone on, you wouldn’t believe haha! I’m 15 anyway, and i hope you see this! xxx

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Anonymous said: Why do people cut?

Oh godddd. Everyone has their reasons.

When you were little, you’d get a paper cut and you’d bite your finger, or pinch your body. You’d forget about the paper cut because you would be focusing on another pain, a self inflicted pain. I think it’s that way with self harm too. Pain is pain, no matter what, but it makes you feel better if you know that you are in control of that pain.

You can’t control the pain inside your head, so you find ways to hurt yourself on the outside, trying to forget the pain on the inside. I don’t really know though to be honest with you, it’s something you have to personally experience, to be able to understand sweet xxx